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What is your Unlearning Style?

November 8, 2016 By //  by J. Val Hastings

I have been noticing a recurring theme from the leaders that I coach.  It’s the need for leaders to unlearn, as well as learn.  Several that I am coaching are focusing a significant amount of their time and energy on unlearning. Here are a few examples:

  • One leader recently realized how much “telling and advising” she does. She realized that in order to develop as a leader that really hear others.  And a huge part of hearing others is unlearning her “telling/advising” way of being.
  • Another leader recently discovered that his definition of leader is really more of a definition of manager.  His primary focus is unlearning his thinking and assumptions about leaders as manager, while also embracing a broader definition of leadership.
  • A final example is a leader that wants to develop the leadership capacity of his team – only to discover that he likes being the expert or the “go-to” person.  He recently stated that for most of his professional career he believed that his primary role was to be the “Answer Person.”

Today I invite you to consider what you need to unlearn in order to be the best leader possible.

All the best to you,

Filed Under: LEADERSHIP

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